Episode 09: Loving the Unlovable

October 27, 20251 min read

💫 Episode 09: Loving the Unlovable


Have you ever noticed how easy it is to love the people who are kind, warm, and agreeable—but how hard it can be to offer that same love to someone who frustrates you? In this heartfelt and often funny conversation, Charla Goodnight and co-host Keri Johnson explore what it truly means to “love the unlovable.”

Keri opens the episode by pulling the oracle card Diving for Light, a reminder that real spiritual growth comes not from chasing only what’s light and easy—but from finding the light within what feels dark, messy, or uncomfortable. Together, they share personal stories of ego, compassion, and everyday triggers (including Charla’s very relatable parking-lot neighbor and a few road-rage moments).

Charla reflects on how judgment often begins within—how when we don’t fully love ourselves, it’s harder to extend love outward. Keri shares her daily practice for staying ahead of negative energy: setting intentions the night before, blessing the morning before her feet hit the floor, and choosing gratitude as the foundation for her day.

They also dive into Wayne Dyer’s wisdom on aligning with the higher self, the power of the “I Am” statement, and how our vibration shapes the reality we attract. Through humor, humility, and spiritual truth, Charla and Keri remind us that compassion is a daily choice—and sometimes, the greatest act of love is to bless someone from afar.

Takeaway: You can hold healthy boundaries and still radiate love. Because your vibration is your currency—and the energy you choose to embody becomes the life you live.

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Sending love, remembrance, and faith,

Charla and Keri ❤️

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